School is a time for discovering
what you’re good at, what you’re not, what sort of people you like and don’t and
the friendships that you make and break will shape who you grow into. Bullying
tests your resilience to those more trying times and it can be as serious as to
make or break a person, some struggle but push through and become a more
resilient person, some let it bounce off them and are relatively unaffected and
then there are the saddest group that cannot take it and retreat into their
shells never to reappear.
There is an argument for the rise
in social media playing a major role in bullying. Children can be innocent and
accepting of all people regardless of race, class, gender, sexuality and so on
and so forth but they are also liable to point out how some people are
different from others – there is no threshold for appropriateness. This means
that simple things, like not having the latest gadget, leaves some children
vulnerable to ridicule and this is where bullying can begin. Then there is the
additional threat that comes with all of these gadgets: social media.
Facebook, MySpace and other such social
networking sites are prime mediums for bullying to spawn. Firstly there is
little or no adult supervision so children can both see what older members of
the site are doing and they can also say things through type that they would
not say through the spoken word because of the consequences – the internet
allows for fewer consequences simply because of the perverse nature of being
social and antisocial simultaneously. Secondly, there is a type of fever created
around certain things, people jump on bandwagons much quicker if they see that
friends or people they admire are also participating.
For victims of bullying it can
also be a typical catch-22 situation. If they have accounts there is no escape
from bullies, they can be accessed all the time and potentially the content on
that page can be used to fuel the bullies but it is also way to become accepted
and stop the bullying. Conformity is the best way to avoid bullying because you
are anonymous among a pack.
There are lots of forms of social
media available and indeed devices that allow easy access to these accounts but
they are all accessed, one way or another, through the internet. For more
information on internet or mobile phone service providers contact them directly
on the Orange contact number. You can also find the contact details for all other service providers at the Customer Services Contact website.
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